Frosted Diaries | Holiday Outfits Guide
The holidays stack up fast.
A quiet morning turns into errands.
Errands turn into dinner plans. Somewhere in there, you’ve changed outfits twice & still feel like you’re not dressed right.
This guide is for those days. The in-between ones that don’t need a whole lookbook but still deserve some thought. You don’t need a new wardrobe. Just a few outfit formulas that make moving through the season feel easier.
Think of this as a real-life reference.
Holiday Outfits Guide
+ Casual Holiday Days
For: coffee runs, gift wrapping, low-key plans that might turn social
Keep it simple, but pulled together. A knit with a bit of structure goes further than something oversized that loses its shape by noon. Pair it with straight-leg denim or easy trousers & you’ve got a base that looks like you tried without actually trying.
Polished sneakers or a simple ankle boot keep things grounded. Neutral colors with some warmth (camel, cream, soft gray) feel seasonal without being loud.
Pro tip: a good coat or crossbody bag can do more for the whole look than five accessories ever could.
Casual-Dressy (aka: the MVP of Holiday Outfits)
For: family dinners, friend gatherings, & most “what should I wear?” moments
Start with a top that has some visual weight. Something with texture, drape, or detail. Satin, a good knit, or anything that layers well under a jacket works here.
Bottoms can be flexible: tailored trousers are great, but dark denim also holds its own when the rest of the outfit is intentional. A structured blazer or coat finishes the look & makes it feel considered without being stiff.
Shoes tip the scale here. A clean boot, block heel, or elevated flat can shift the vibe from everyday to event-ready fast.
Dressy but Comfortable
For: when you want to look polished but still eat & breathe
Midi dresses with stretch, matching sets in soft fabrics, or a wide-leg trouser moment. These are the pieces that feel dressed up without fighting your body.
Stick to fabrics that move well & don’t wrinkle easily. Accessories can be minimal, one strong element (like a statement earring or an unexpected shoe) does the job.
If you feel relaxed, it shows, & that’s always going to look better than anything too overdone.
Fully Dressy Holiday Looks
For: the moments that ask for more (& feel fun to dress up for)
This is where silhouette & fabric carry the weight. A velvet blazer, silk dress, or tailored monochrome outfit brings the formality without needing too much else.
You don’t need sparkle on sparkle. You need one or two well-chosen elements that do the talking — a sharp heel, a clean clutch, a refined piece of jewelry.
When the outfit feels focused, it reads as elevated.
Don’t Forget the Coat
Outerwear shows up in more photos than you think. Choose something that works with your outfit instead of feeling like a throw-on.
Structured wool coats in neutral colors pair with everything. Bonus points if it has texture or interesting details (a collar, a belt, a good sleeve). Let it frame the rest of your look.
The Accessories That Actually Do Something
You don’t need to go overboard here. The right bag, belt, or pair of earrings can shift an outfit enough to match the vibe.
If the base of your outfit is solid, accessories are just the finish.
But Don’t Have Holiday Style Regret
Buying something you’ll never wear again? Regret. Dressing for photos instead of real life? Regret. Choosing discomfort just to check a trend box? Major regret.
Wear what fits your day. What feels really good. What you’ll still like next week.
You don’t need a capsule wardrobe. You don’t need ten new outfits. You just need a few pieces that flex when your plans change, & the confidence to show up as yourself in all of them.
Wear the thing. Repeat the outfit. Skip the stress.
You’re already dressed for the season.
Ciao, babes!
– L
xx